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    53 and now a family!

    Congratulations!. The only word of advice I have for you is to be slow and considerate of your wife's wishes. My sister is a widow and had a similar situation. I've seen how things can become very confusing if not dealt with carefully. The kids need time to get to know you and build a...
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    Politics

    I just went to a county councilman's district meeting and I am glad I did. After years of griping about the politicians in my district, I've decided to stop running my yap and do something. There definitely was a lot of hot air blowing around in there (if you get my drift) but there were rays of...
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    Family Feuds

    Thanks for the advice. I agree with everything you said. My wife has decided to just back off from them for a little while and see what happens. I believe if her sisters really did love her and care for her as they should they would just respect her wishes. Their actions speak volumes. My wife...
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    New to this

    It was a big life adjustment for me, especially at the beginning. Our first child was a nonstop crying baby. She also had some health problems that required many sleepless nights and hospital visits. For me, once she was born , it was a whirlwind change.
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    Kids and responsibility

    Do you think kids have more or less responsibility today than in generations past? I have done my best to encourage a strong work ethic with my oldest daughter. In the summer, she helps me cut wood for the winter and she has household responsibilities as well. Her friends don't seem to have to...
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    Chores that you do at home.

    I cook at least 1 meal everyday, do most of the laundry (except for my wife's things..apparently I don't do it to her liking) and the car maintenance. I don't think I've ever dusted in my life!
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    tater topings

    I must say that I do it up right...butter, sour cream and cheddar. I once tried lowfat sour cream and it was awful. If you're going to indulge, just do it...no half steppin!
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    Too Much Screen Time Can Threaten Attention Span

    My wife hates the darn thing. She calls it the idiot box. I must admit I do use it to fill in the gaps when I have to take care of household chores or just catch a break.
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    Stay-at-home-moms

    My wife stayed at home with the girls until they turned two and by then she was going stir crazy and went back to work.
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    When did your kids start to talk?

    Both of my girls were talking with conversational sentences during their 2nd year. All children are on their own timetable, but if you are concerned about a delay or something I'd talk to the pediatrician and they will head you in the right direction.
  11. K

    Tomboys

    It sounds pretty healthy and good for your daughter to spend time with you. It will keep the two of you close sharing those memories together and it will keep her well rounded.
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    bed time

    My 3 yr. old gets her bath at 7, then stories and lights out by 8pm. She stopped napping shortly after her 3rd birthday. My 11 yr. old goes to bed at 9pm during the school year. In the summer, sometimes she's up until 10 or 11pm.
  13. K

    Bringing friends?

    I suppose I would be okay with the friend coming along after say age 11 or twelve. I would discuss some sort of arrangement for the extra expenses though with the friend's parents.
  14. K

    Who do you tell and when?

    My wife gets on the horn as soon as she reads the pregnancy tests. I suppose couples who have had problem pregnancies or miscarriages want to wait to make sure everything is okay first.
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    Now I've done it

    I usually don't do my wife's laundry for that very reason. I made that mistake once. Hopefully, she'll realize you were trying to help out and all will be well soon.
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    "Daddy I Hate you!"

    I got the dreaded "I hate you" and it was a direct result of a punishment. It didn't hurt as much as I thought it would. In fact, I said that quite a bit to my own parents. Who likes to be punished? I've learned to roll with the punches.
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    Do you have your dad around to ask advice from?

    My father passed away when I was in my early twenties...a long time ago. Thankfully, I have some great friends who've helped me along the way.
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    What makes you cave in the fastest?

    When my 3 year old comes up to me and tells me how much she loves me and says that she wants a hug. She's irresistable!. Melts me like butter.
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    How Are You Keeping The Kids Entertained?

    We have a pool membership.....my wife insisted on it, as this is my first summer as the stay at home dad. I thought it was a waste of money until school let out and then I thanked her. What a godsend it has been. We go every day from 1-4 or so and it really has helped so much. We also go to the...
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    Family Feuds

    My wife comes from a very dysfunctional family...well who doesn't nowadays? Anyway, they have never been fond of me and it places my wife in a difficult situation. She and her sisters have always been close and they still are sort of, but after she sees them she is very upset as she spends a...
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