Some parents use that as an excuse yes. But there are some that really ARE just that busy. With money getting tighter or a lot of people, it's a good chance they really ARE too busy sometimes. If it comes down to bringing the kid to a baseball game and putting cloths on the kid's back, what would you choose?That was so cool to hear! Not only the baseball but that you are involved with her in fun events. So many parents are so "busy" that they don't find time. Congrats!