My step-son got an in school suspension for cussing at school last week. Today, his mother got a call from the school. Yesterday was his last day at ALC (in school suspension, and he has already got another in school suspension for cussing. His mother is beside herself and doesn't know what to do. I know she is leaning on me for support. I think he needs a severe punishment, but I know it is hard for her to do that. At the same time I am worried about handing out and enforcing a hard punishment because I am the "Step-Dad", not the "Real-Dad". His real dad abandoned them years ago and I know there are still problems because of that. How do you think I should handle this situation?