Family
| 04 | May |
| 2012 |
It’s bound to happen at some point. Your brutally honest child who has never held back from the truth stares you right in the face and lies. Most parents don’t worry about the issue unless it becomes a chronic one or unless the lie is regarding something significant. In fact, kids as young as three years old can tell a pretty good lie, so parents are faced with this issue early on. [read more...] Read More →
Single Fathers
| 27 | Jan |
| 2012 |
When you are a single parent there are many things that you may want to enjoy when your kids aren’t around. Sexual intimacy is something that many single parents want to enjoy. However, figuring out what the right time is can be an interesting trick. There are many situations that you may find yourself in that you don’t really want to deal with. There are ways to handle situations and there are things that you absolutely don’t want to do when it deals with your sex life while you are single. [read more...] Read More →
Step-Fathers
| 01 | May |
| 2012 |
We all make mistakes, even though we may not like to admit it. Being a dad is one of the hardest jobs in the world, and once you throw step kids into the mix, the role gets even harder. There’s no one right way to stepparent, as you’ll have to tailor your approach based on the ages and genders of your stepchildren. But there are some mistakes that you can avoid right off the bat. In fact, these mistakes are some of the worst you can make and to some children, unforgiveable. [read more...] Read More →
Health
| 30 | Mar |
| 2012 |
Testosterone is the primary reason that you feel and look different than your wife or daughter. This substance in your blood is responsible for making you a man. Women have testosterone in their bodies as well, but they have a much smaller amount. [read more...] Read More →
Entertainment
Bowling has been a favorite pastime for dads for decades. Spending a few hours down at the lanes with some buddies, snacks and beers is a great way to unwind. It feeds the competitive spirit and lets you practice your technical skills as well. [read more...] Read More →
Food - Home
Serving wine at the proper temperature can make a tremendous difference in flavor. Many people may feel they have no taste for wine, but oenophiles can conduct an experiment that may change minds. People often drink both white and red wines out of the refrigerator, which is a mistake. The temperature benefits neither vintage. Try serving wine at three temperatures: the correct temperature, too cold, and too warm. Most people will immediately discern the difference in flavor, and they may begin to enjoy a lifelong appreciation of fine wine. [read more...] Read More →
Gamer Rage and How to Avoid It
| 31 | Mar |
| 2010 |
Most men who have played video games on even a semi-regular basis have experienced what is known as Gamer Rage. Frustrations at being unable to progress past a certain point in a game or constantly being killed by other players in an online setting are just a couple of the known causes. Anyone can be affected by gamer rage.
The level of frustration that often sparks this rage touches men on an almost primal level. The frustration builds until men feel the irrational need to lash out at someone or something. Broken or damaged controllers, holes in walls, and smashed TVs or monitors are just some of the casualties of gamer rage. It can also lead to broken relationships or friendships as well as injury to oneself or anyone else in the room.
There are some that scoff and just say that it is the result of taking games too seriously. In a way, this may be true, but it may go deeper than that. Man has within himself a basic need to compete and emerge victorious against all obstacles. Some may feel this more strongly than others, but it is generally there on some level.
This need to compete and conquer is one of the things that often lead to an outbreak of gamer rage in men of all ages. Anyone who has felt gamer rage should consider a few things about their gaming. What types of games are being played? How much time is spent playing these games? Are they games of just one type, or are they a blend of games?
Psychologists are becoming more and more convinced of a link between violent or anti-social video games and increases in aggression. People have been saying that these violent games teach those that play them to be more violent and aggressive. In a way, this is true. Video games do teach the players on some level, and the types of games being played on a regular basis will affect those that are playing them.
Gamers that play a lot of games that center around violence or competition should consider adding games that have no competition to their play time. These non-competitive and non-violent games can help to counter the frustration generated by more competitive and violent games. Gamers need to find a balance in their gaming to avoid being a victim of gamer rage.
Another possible counter to gamer rage is to get up and walk away. When frustration begins to mount, pause the game and walk away for a while. This gives the gamer a chance to cool down and clear his head before returning to the game that was frustrating him. Five minutes away from the game could be all it would take to avoid something that will be regretted later.
Gamer rage is not something that is necessarily easily fixed. It stems from base emotions within the player, but it can be easily avoided. It takes making a conscious decision to change things about playing video games. There is nothing wrong with playing video games, and there is nothing wrong with playing the games that the gamer enjoys. There just needs to be some moderation.
Limiting the time spent playing and alternating the types of games played can go a long way toward preventing gamer rage. Gamers need to remember why they started playing games in the first place. Most often it was to relax and break away from the stress of their daily lives. Games provide a way to escape for a while, but that escape shouldn’t add to the stress.
Gamer rage can affect anyone at any time. It can hurt everyone, but it can be avoided. Games are meant to be a fun escape and should stay that way. All it takes is for the gamer to make a choice about playing.
A Guide For Dad’s to Bond With Their Newborns
| 31 | Mar |
| 2010 |
Motherhood seems to come naturally to women. They almost seem to come out of the womb ready to raise a child. Men, however, find that fatherhood can be a struggle. Many new fathers find it difficult to bond with their child, an experience that perplexes the mothers and may create tension within the fathers.
Signs That You’re a Healthy Guy
| 30 | Mar |
| 2010 |
Today, there are hair dyes, skin bronzer, and “shaper” underwear made for men; all these things and more are used to make a guy look young and fit. If you have Hollywood type money to buy it, you just might pull it off. Buy the stuff they advertise on TV, and your “enhancements” could be obvious from a mile away.
The Importance of Being a Good Dad
| 29 | Mar |
| 2010 |
Parents may think that they are only a small influence in their children’s lives and they often underestimate the impact that they have on their overall development. Dads have a role in the psychological, social, and academic development of their children. The importance of being a good dad may not be addressed often, but those dads who put forth the effort will see the fruits of their labor as they watch their children grow into successful and well-adjusted adults.
Choosing the Right Luxury Watch for You
| 25 | Mar |
| 2010 |
A watch is quite the statement about a man — it can demonstrate his taste in fashion, his desire to look good, and particularly a sense of his personality. However, this can backfire badly on those who think that just dropping a wad of cash will get them the luxury watch they need, as evidenced by the many “Folex” wearers.