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    Bedtime

    My son is 10 and his bed time is 9 PM at the latest. I let him stay up that late mainly so I can talk to him before he goes to bed. Since I work crazy hours it is important to me to be able to see him before bed. My daughter is 3 and she goes to bed between 7 or 8 pm. She usually ends up in bed...
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    Love and Marriage?

    Yes. I think that movies blow things way out of proportion. It gives couples a false sense of realism and makes being in love very hard.
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    child blocking

    The best option is to get a lawyer. You can get police involved but we are unable to enforce much without a court order.
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    Library Time

    We go to the library at least twice a month. The kids love to pick out their own books and my wife likes to read so it helps. I don't read a whole lot of books so for me it is a time to sit down and read e-mail.
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    Oh no no cable!

    Yes, kids depend on technology way to much. I remember back in the day when you had to actually go outside and play with your friends rather than getting on a game system to chat and play call of duty.
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    Kids and cell phones

    Very interested. I am tempted to wait until they are at least in 8th grade. I see the good things in them allowing me to contact them or for them to call for help; but most kids abuse the privilege of having a cell phone.
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    What is the most valuable gift you can give your children?

    Well as others have said but I would also add love and compassion. It is important that they know you love them no matter what.
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    Kids and cell phones

    I want to put this out to the community. How old is old enough to have their own cell phone. Seems like 5 and 6 year olds have smart phones now.
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    embarrassing kids, too much?

    I think it is an interesting punishment. There is a judge down in Texas, I forgot his name, but he'd make people do the same thing. The kid himself even said he deserved that punishment and thought it was good and showed him how to be responsible for his actions.
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    What type of father are you?

    I am very active showing them ways to be better people. I do not make decisions for them but I point them in the right direction and teach them that if they make mistakes they must be accountable for their actions.
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    Too much fast food

    It can be very bad. It can lead to obesity an set a very bad example for your kids. I know that I often go the easy route as well and it is not easy to make the change but if you make an effort, you'll notice a difference pretty quickly.
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    Hobbies

    Probably hit the range more. That is a favorite hobby of mine. It is a big stress reliever to shoot at targets and build your skills.
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    BabyProofing Question

    You can contact a baby proofing company in your area. They may be able to suggest a better option such as installing a lock on the outside of the cabinet that would be mounted on your wall. It is hard to explain without pictures which is why it is probably best to consult someone local to you. :)
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    Unexpected and in shock

    I would suggest that you be there for the girl. You think your scared and confused and lost; consider what she is going through as well. Being a father isn't something that others can tell you how to act, you learn as you go. You will make mistakes and look like a fool at times but other fathers...
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    Best Indoor Play Places For Your Kiddos

    I would agree with others with the Monkey Joes or even Wild Air. Wild Air is very similar to Monkey Joes but it is MUCH cheaper and parents get in free.
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    Child Support is hurting me

    As others have said you can go to court and plead with the judge. The problem is the judge will look at it and say that the child needs that money to survive. I know it can be hard right now since you don't have a steady job but keep your head up and keep looking for one.
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    Not enough homework

    When I was in school we had homework piled on us and I still managed to do it all at school. Why? Because I managed my time very well and I wanted to enjoy my time out of school. Maybe this is why your grandson doesn't have homework. Maybe you should ask him....
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    Talking behind my back

    Well my advice is not always easy to do. I would advise you to find better friends and let the negative comments and things roll off your shoulders. In my job I use deflection a lot and it really helps get rid of any negative statements. It will also make you feel much better. An example would...
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    Would you take your 11-year old to....

    As others have said its a great bonding moment for the two of you. Most kids understand that it is fake and that they shouldn't try it at home on their siblings. If your unsure tell him that it isn't safe to do at home. I know from other threads you wanted to be more involved in your future...
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    How much time is enough.....

    Very interesting points everyone. I agree especially with Collin about teaching and showing your kids what the world should be like. Many experts have blamed rising crime rates on the fact that there are so many fatherless children out there. I can't confirm or deny those claims but it's very...
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