I'm separated from my wife and I don't know how to go about giving gifts to our girl this Christmas. My ex-wife does not work. She's on food stamps. So she has just about no money to buy presents with. I, on the other hand, hold down a full-time job and can afford a lot of presents. I want to spoil my girl but my ex doesn't want me to do so because she can't match the spoils herself. How should I handle this?