Thanks Bobby! Exact same situation here. My wife of 8 months is 9 years younger than I am, but this was not exactly expected, as I had a vasectomy 4 years ago, and found out AFTER the fact that the ends have "reattached". Talk about some trust issues coming up in a marriage initially! I guess it was meant to be given the circumstances, but yeah I have to admit I'm worried about starting over as well. My oldest is 21 and my youngest just turned 16.