What makes someone a good parent?

[jason]

Last night we discussed what makes a good parent. Three of us were there, three different types of parenting. Thought this would make an discussion.

What do you guys think are the qualities a person needs to be a good parent?
What do you guys think are the qualities that would prevent someone from being a good parent?

 

[Adam]

A good parent, in my opinion. Would be a person who shows great love for their children. They show their love in many different ways, and would really just do just about anything for their child.

 

[SilverVeil]

Selflessness makes a good parent and selfishness makes a poor parent. Someone who routinely puts their wants in front of the needs of their child is not a good parent. Parents sacrifice to the needs of their children. And a parent is someone a child needs to raise them a friend is someone they have after they've been raised.

 

[Kevin]

Great question, not an easy one though. In the end, I believe a good parent walks the walk, not just talks the talk. They lead by example, they love unconditionally and always are looking out for the greatest good for their children.

 

[papabear]

Unconditional love, unbending rules enforced firmly yet gently[I have a girl], and a willingness to sacrifice what you have for your children if need be. That's my definition of a good father.

Good question by the way.