My ex and I have been at war for the past five years. A couple of months ago, my wife asked me if I wanted her to take over communications and I agreed. I didn't want her to have to deal with all the aggravation, but she insisted she didn't mind. Sure enough, things have been smooth sailing ever since. My ex is actually polite to her and there has been no antagonizing or harassing going on. I can't believe it! It's worked out better for everyone involved.