Try to look at it this way Jaxon. You obviously have a different view of parenting then the father in question does. From what you've said, he sounds like a very poor father, true, but has it ever dawned on you that maybe he just isn't the kind of person who is capable of raising a productive member of society? Trust me, there are a lot of parents out there like that. People like that don't do it on purpose, they just don't have it in them. Does that make them bad people? Not necessarily. They can try, and try, and give it their all, but they just can't make it "click" somehow.
Now, put yourself in his shoes. How would that make YOU feel?
Don't hate the man Jaxon, just realize that he doesn't have what it takes. Remember, he realizes this too.