I have a brother that is on that wrong path. He thinks everyone is wrong in our opinion of him, but he is 36 years old, has two children, has no job, and does drugs and drinks all the time. It's sad because he is very smart. He's an expert in the insurance business. He walked away from an 80k a year job, because he didn't want to work for anyone. He quit a business he started with 2 people who were the funding for the insurance company they started and quit, even though he was making 5 figures a month. He wanted full control of the company. So he is just a broke person with all the skill in the world and too stupid to live a normal life. It really upsets us, but it's his choice.