I can't agree more with you. Just love what you have and believe that you have all what you love. Also try to put yourself in your spouse's shoes before thinking about cheating on her.They need to clear their heads and realize that what they have is all they need.
If you have a conversation with a woman other than your wife, and your wife had that same conversation with another man, and the idea of HER having that conversation with another man upsets YOU, then it's cheating.I have a lot of married friends who like to chat with girls online. They claim it is a harmless chat but sometimes they allow themselves too much. How do you look on this, is it cheating?