Haha, that is hilarious! To answer the original question, I don't feel more feminine for taking care of my own children. I feel very fortunate and just as much a man as ever.No, I don't believe that cooking and changing diapers make a man any less a man. Maybe it's because of the way my mother taught me about work in the kitchen. She always said that a man must learn to cook. Otherwise he will be hungry when his wife goes on strike. I have passed this gem on to all my sons, too.