I am a future father. We are expecting our first soon. She was just my girlfriend at the time (long term, 3 years seeing eachother on and off, 8 months living together) and she was worried that I would not want to keep the child. She finally broke down and told me about one month into the pregnancy while we were in the car driving up to my parent's house one weekend. It was great news for me and I was delighted.