I worked with this guy who has three children. His wife doesn't work. He made a good salary in education, but he was always broke and bumming money off others. Now he has lost his job and has to work in a grocery store. He keeps sending e-mails to all the people he used to work with and goes around from church to church asking for money to live on. I run into him when I go to buy groceries, and all I want to do is tell him to learn to budget his money, even if his wife needs to go to work. Instead, I keep quite because I know it will do no good. In a few weeks, we'll all get more e-mails.