Hey there! I am curious of any other men have dealt wih this and how they overcame it. My wife and I have been married for 6 years now. We have very strong and loving relationships with our families. We also have a 3 yr old boy and a 4 month old girl.
It seems like ever since we started down the road to having kids my sex drive has essentially fallen off. When I see a pretty or nice bodied female I do get aroused or have the fantasies, however when it comes to my wife it seems like I would rather take matters into my own hands. Now we are not skinny people, I am 6'3" 295lbs and she is 5'11" 240, however she has gained weight and I am just not as attracted to her in that way.
It seems like I have lost all interest in "being" with her. The rest of our relationship is fine, it is just the intimacy part that isn't working... Please help!!!!!
Als I hope this is the right place to ask..
It seems like ever since we started down the road to having kids my sex drive has essentially fallen off. When I see a pretty or nice bodied female I do get aroused or have the fantasies, however when it comes to my wife it seems like I would rather take matters into my own hands. Now we are not skinny people, I am 6'3" 295lbs and she is 5'11" 240, however she has gained weight and I am just not as attracted to her in that way.
It seems like I have lost all interest in "being" with her. The rest of our relationship is fine, it is just the intimacy part that isn't working... Please help!!!!!
Als I hope this is the right place to ask..