What first-time mothers need

[Jack]

What do first-time expecting and new mothers need most from their husbands? I think first-time fathers can really be at a loss during this time in a woman's life.

 

[WallysBunch]

They need support, help with the baby and the chores and reassurances that you love them and the baby unconditionally. It is a stressful time in both a mother's and a father's life and things can get hectic with the baby waking during the night. I remember when our first started sleeping through the night we were thrilled.

 

[Rip_VanWinkle]

My brother is going through this right now. I keep telling him he needs to do more for his wife. She gets really depress thinking she is not doing things right. First time mothers need lots of reassurance. They also need a little me time, and they need to feel they are still attractive and loved.

 

[JakeJ]

I would add that they need a partner who can do things without asking lots of questions. So go do the shopping or cleaning or laundry, don't expect a list of instructions or guidance.