Do you guys and your wives have like set chores. For example maybe your wife does the laundry and dishes and you do the yardwork? We pretty much have it set up where whomever can get to it gets it done.
I am most likely to do the yardwork, take out the garbage, handywork around the house. Whereas, my wife is more likely to do laundry, dishes, cook, etc.
My wife says I am to take care of anything outside the house, fix anything inside the house the breaks and take out the trash. I get yelled at when I clean, I help with laundry, and I'm forbidden from doing dishes, as I put them back where I think things belong and it messes her up.