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    Why Marry her if you don't love her kids?

    The biggest conflict for the step father is based on whether they have affection for both the mother and her children. It is true that one might find it very hard to give equal love to step children, but at least he should show some love. Here is a situation where one loves the mother but not...
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    Why stay single yet you have an affair?

    Some single fathers are stand-up parents and with self-respect. Their main energy is concentrated in helping the young one(s). However, there are those who have affairs and yet wouldn't want to marry. I just thought that if someone is seeing the need to have an affair, they should also think...
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    Can you take her back after divorce?

    I've seen some divorced parents have a very cordial relationship thereafter and even visit and spend together. I do ask myself why these happy people can't remarry or is not ok? Anybody with such experience?
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    Does she look down upon you?

    My long time is a stay at home dad and has been of late full of complaints. He stays with the kids as he does some 'work from home' online job, which is really income generating. The wife, on the other hand, has an office job with one of the insurance companies and gets more money. They both...
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    Is it ok to have differnt religious beliefs?

    This might sound a little awkward to some. However, in most marriages I've seen break, it has been mainly due to different religious beliefs. An instance is where the Father wants everyone to go with him to his church while the mother wants freedom of worship and vice versa. What about you, does...
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    Making HIV Test Compulsory.

    Not compulsory but a very great necessity. The government has availed everything that would encourage the Voluntary HIV Testing! From the way, the government promotes this agenda, they might go to the Compulsory style!
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    Lots of Whooping cough around!

    And what is this that makes people to fear vaccination? It is at times amusing how people neglect important health issues, only to run for the services at the last minute!
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    Sleepover

    You must vet this girls and also give them some ground rules! I'm not suggesting you become paranoid though!
  9. J

    Different for single mothers?

    Yes, the fact that most males are independent and can comfortably fend for themselves, makes being a single father at-least bearable as compared to the seemingly vulnerable states of single mothers!
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    Eating control

    I think that as a parent you should know that parenting is inclusive of every aspect of the child's life. I would be very keen especially on what the kids eat because what they eat has a great bearing on their health!
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    How much rich is your English language?

    Many don't know grammar, let alone the sentence structure. I consider my English good though not perfect!
  12. J

    Rearing stepchildren isn't as easy!

    I have stated this somewhere in the forum! It is very difficult to take of these kids due certain paranoia they do develop. They think they are not always treated right
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    Bad decisions

    As a good friend, I'm smart enough to know when I must intervene and when not! I can't make decisions for my I'm sure a can influence them. I would therefore tell them my opinion on that wrong decision and try persuading them out of it!
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    Nap is great for health

    Does this mean that I'm having medical problems? I can't have a nap however much I try yet you are suggesting that it has great medical benefits! Any advise from members on what I must do to have a nap?
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    Salt and Knee joind pains

    I have lots of pain in my knee and would be very happy to hear that this theory works since it will be an option worth exploring! Is it functional or still a theory!
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    How To Trust Again?

    It is true that trust is earned but in some cases it has to be bestowed because it is impossible to be earned. In this case the wife has killed the trust and no matter what she will do, she can't just earn the trust. But as you said, a little responsibility here and there might just prove to...
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    Mild autism

    Sorry for that my friend! I'm however glad that that there are encouraging improvements on the child. Anyway just ensure that the Mild Autism doesn't get worse by ensuring that the doctor's advise is relied on always!
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    Thinking of going back to school

    Provided you are going to exercise prudence in your financial management, everything will be smooth. The problem might only occur if your priorities are wrong!
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    Intimacy issue

    I concur here that self-esteem is also of great significance. You can be slim but if you are not proud of yourself then love making won't be an easy task. I just agree with this input!
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    Are there support groups in your area?

    I have to agree with the fact that a face-to-face is better than online as far as personal touch is concerned. However if there is no way to get that personal, then online support groups will still be your best bet!
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