My best friend is a step dad. He has no kids of his own and this is his first marriage. He became a step dad at 52 years old kids are 6, 10 and 12. He has been a step dad for 3 years now yet feels in total shock about parenting. A lot of the stuff he complains about is just part of being a dad.
For example, his house is not as clean as he would like, the kids aren't as well behaved as he would expect, there is too much to do, they always seem busy, he doesn't get enough time with his wife and so on. I usually just say, welcome to the club when he complains. The thing is that he then rejects that response like he is the only one suffering or experiencing those things.
Is there any other step dads out there who do not have kids of their own who can help me figure out what to say to him. I think he is going to lose his wife if he doesn't accept the roles of fatherhood.
For example, his house is not as clean as he would like, the kids aren't as well behaved as he would expect, there is too much to do, they always seem busy, he doesn't get enough time with his wife and so on. I usually just say, welcome to the club when he complains. The thing is that he then rejects that response like he is the only one suffering or experiencing those things.
Is there any other step dads out there who do not have kids of their own who can help me figure out what to say to him. I think he is going to lose his wife if he doesn't accept the roles of fatherhood.