Well, in my case it was the best thing that could have happened. My wife got hooked on drugs and went downhill in a hot hurry. She thought she had me fooled and that I didn't know it but I knew as soon as she started doing the hard stuff. I would "suggest" that my Mom and Dad would really like to see my little one for the day and she would readily agree. I got out of the relationship as quickly as I could AND I took the baby.