We don't do the whole "honey do" list thing. We just have a routine where I always do the same "chores" and so does she. She always does laundry, for instance, and I'm always on trash duty. It works for us.I spent a great deal of my weekend knocking things off of my "honey do" list, and as I was passing by it on the fridge I see it has grown again. We are back up to two pages, and I had definitely knocked it down to one!