Avelino has a good point. There are lots of people out there, both men and women, who can't afford to get divorced. I have a neighbor who is going through that right now. There are organizations out there that will help you and lawyers who will offer pro bono or discounted services to those in need. You just have to do the research to find what is available in your area.
In the meantime, if you've met someone, Kromer is right and you should probably wait for the divorce to get underway before you get involved.