I have a nine-year old step-son. We just learned that his real father passed away a couple of weeks ago. No one ever informed us about it, we just learned by chance from a third party. Now our dilemma is how to tell our step-son about it. He never bonded with his real father when the man was still alive and just saw him, less than five times. But even so, I think my step-son needs to know. But how should we tell him?