I am more of a spectator than a player but I do enjoy watching a game every now and then. For me since we are not "due" yet I can not tell you, we had the chance to opt in for an ultrasound for the sex but decided to let it be a surprise. This came after yes we want to know/no we dont/yes we do/no we dont, many times over. Whatever we are blessed with might just like to watch the game more than play it.