"Wants" vs "Needs"

[Mack]

Recently my ten year old daughter decided she "needs" a cell phone, and has not let up about how "all the other kids have one". I caught myself starting to "lecture". Have you had to deal with this?

 

[MickL]

Not yet, and I am grateful for that. I notice today many kids have their own cell phone while they are still too young to be responsible for it.

 

[Sinbian]

I agree! Anything bellow 14 is not for a cell phone. That is when they can be influenced the most and such powerful gadget is not so good for them.

 

[Jack]

My oldest daughter is 8---I thought I had more time than a couple years before I would have to deal with this. Guess I better start to consider it. Of course the answer is "No".

 

[TwinPeaks]

I think that 10 years old is hardly appropriate for a cell phone. But I don't know what age is to be perfectly straight. I guess it all depends on the child itself and its maturity level you are trying to put your trust in.

 

[Richie]

Ahhh, the old 'all the other kids have one' argument. Don't you remember that feeling yourself? I wouldn't overlook how important it is for kids to feel part of a group, so even though it seems young it is worth thinking about buying her one. Maybe for her next birthday?

 

[TwinPeaks]

Just don't forget that a parent is a parent and that you have the right to check on her/his text messages and conversations (if the child is too young - whatever that age is) to make sure everything is OK.

 

[Daddy-O]

Yeah, I think ten is way too young for a cell phone. And I think that "because all the other kids have one" excuse isn't good enough. When I choose to give my daughter a cell phone, it'll be because she's going out with friends, so I'll have instant contact with her whenever I want. And she dang well better answer when I call, or the cell phone (and the going out with friends) will be no more.