So my wife and I are seperated because I found her cheating on me with this guy. Well, her and this guy (and my twelve year old daughter) live together. He's on disability and buys my daughter anything she wants (new furniture for her room, game systems, clothes, etc.). I don't have the money to buy her everything she wants, and this puts me in a bad spot. I know he's trying to buy her love, but it still makes me look like a loser. What do I do?