I met the mother of my son at a bar (bad I know). We started talking and there was good chemistry, we went back to mine and had sex on the first night (bad I know). The bad signs were there from the beginning, I should have known!
Red flags appear everywhere, it's just up to us to see them or not. My ex-wife? Yeah, major red flag when she vanished on a day she was supposedly with her mother. Her mom calls our landline asking for her. Well, needless to say... 8 hours later she finally comes home. No note. We weren't just dating at this point, oh no. We were married. Turns out her excuse was "I was at the mall filling out applications and ran into an old friend of mine. I hadn't seen him in years." And then, months later, this is the guy she leaves me for. I treat her well. He treats her like ****. Why is it that I'm the one left in the cold, eh? Who knows...
The point? Yeah, bad signs are everywhere. Just glad she never had my child haha