I make the money in the house. I do not think it should matter who makes more in the household. I have a buddy who would not accept his wife made more it eventually lead to divorce (among other things of course, but this was one main reason)!
When the woman makes more and the man feels that his status in the house is lowered, then that thinking simply rubs us men inside the wrong way. It's in our psyche to provide for our family.
I just read a testimony from a woman who was in this situation. Her husband's business was failing. So she took it upon herself to work harder to earn for the family. She had a lucrative position in a big company.
This depressed the husband. To him, his wife's hard work was a solid proof of his failure. The wife felt her husband's depression. She sensed that she needed to support the husband in another way.
After a lot of serious thought, she resigned from her company and decided to support her husband's business. Husband's morale is back, and business is going back on its feet. They live happily ever after.
How I wish all wives are like that.