I just turned 43 last month. My oldest daughter just turned 21, my son is 17, and my baby girl is 16 today. I am now newly remarried to a wonderful 34 year old woman, and now have a 15 year old stepson and an 11 year old daughter. My wife and I learned last week that we are expecting in August!! I had a vasectomy 4 years ago that we learned has reconnected, so we were not at all expecting this, and to be honest, I am in shock. I have great children that I worked my tail off to raise to be responsible, hard-working, well-adjusted kids...and the thought of starting over at my age terrifies me. Looking for similar age men who have been in this situation, as I need all the support, advice, and encouargement I can get!!