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    Pets

    Where do ya'll stand on pets for the kids? I thought we had a good balance going on with one dog and one cat, but I recently was handed the task of bottle raising 9 puppies. My daughter (a year old) thinks they are hilarious. The puppies are going on 3 weeks old now and I am so grateful that she...
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    Helping step mothers

    I'm sure it's hard on anyone who is a step parent - mother or father. And the kids are bound to be resentful, especially if this is a new situation that happened when they are a little older. I think the most you can do is continue to let your son know that you expect him to be respectful. And...
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    Did you want to be a dad?

    Well, it certainly wasn't planned for us, but when we found out I was pretty excited. My wife and I had actually planned on not having kids at all, but I'm really happy that we did. I think I was looking forward to it more than my wife - she just stayed in shock for 9 months :)
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    Male menopause is 'rare' but it is not a myth

    Oh, I sure hope this doesn't happen to me. Somehow I can't see myself driving a Vette with some chick 20 years my junior sitting next to me, lol. What kind of effects does it have on sexual health, I wonder.
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    Going to work mad

    Man, my wife and I both woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning. We didn't fight before I left, but we were snapping at each other and I left irritated. I hate starting my day like that because then I get to work and have trouble focusing on what I'm supposed to be doing. Mind over...
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    Going back to school

    I'm right there with you. I've thought about it, but when am I supposed to devote the time to it? I know, I know - if I really wanted to make it happen I would, but it would take a serious toll on my family and I'm not sure a bigger paycheck is worth it.
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    Fraggle Rock: The Complete Series Collection

    Wow, I haven't thought about Fraggle Rock in years. Thanks for listing this, Jason. I just might have to make the investment. Even if my daughter doesn't get into it, I sure will :)
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    Children & your wife

    It has strengthened the relationship. To know that we can go through something as complex as raising a child together and still be the best of friends is very rewarding. We both occasionally miss the freedom we used to have, but we try to find little ways of adding some spontaneity to the...
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    Getting close, getting anxious

    Congratulations! Yea, life is definitely a lot different after kids come along, but it's worth the changes. You will eventually fall into a routine though and things won't be as frenzied as they are in the beginning. I hope your wife doesn't leave you out of caring for the new baby. Some women...
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    Changing Diapers

    I'm on diaper duty a lot, but I don't mind. The thing that I have a hard time coping with is vomit. My wife knows this and she knows that when our daughter reaches the age when she has on occasional illness that involves puke, I won't be able to help. I don't mind when babies spit up, but full...
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    Oilfield

    Do we have any oilfield workers here? Or anyone else for that matter who is being affected by this disaster in the Gulf? I live on the Gulf coast and I know a few people who are struggling now thanks to this situation. Fortunately, my line of work isn't reliant on the health of the Gulf, but I...
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    Single fathers or single mothers?

    I don't think one is better or worse than the other. In both situations the parent has to do pretty much the same things to care for the child(ren). The only difference might be that women have a natural, built in maternal instinct and may have a little more patience, but I've known a few guys...
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    Explaining private parts

    Yea, yea, mine does that too! Sometimes she just reaches down and grabs a hold of her diaper and holds it tight for a minute. It never occurred to me that she might be doing this when she's going. 17 months does sound too young to full out potty train, but getting her acclimated to the potty...
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    Parents of US teen sailor defend record attempt

    I did see that somewhere that her brother accomplished this when he was 17. Maybe there's some sibling rivalry there and that's why she wants to try again. I hope she is successful next time.
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    Favorite cut of steak

    Thumbs up, DaddyBob - ribeye is my favorite too. I like to do mine with a homemade spice rub and then cook it on the grill. I don't eat meat very often, but when I do that's the first thing I head for at the meat counter.
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    Explaining private parts

    Thanks, guys. I agree about not saying "yucky." I don't want her to have some type of problem as an adult and be ashamed of herself or whatever. I just can't wait until she's old enough to explain this to. In the meantime, she's quite the little devil about unsnapping onsies and taking her...
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    Bathing your baby?

    Oh, come on, guys! What makes your wife any more capable than you are? I like the fact that my wife happily hands our daughter over to me for bath time and other responsibilities. I trust myself, of course, but it's also nice to know that she does too.
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    Addressing You

    I think it depends on where the biological father is. If he is in the picture, I would say they shouldn't be calling anyone else dad. If he's gone, then sure, no problem. I don't think any man who sees his kids regularly would ever want to hear them call someone else dad.
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    Bathing your baby?

    They can be quite slippery, that's for sure. From the time we brought our daughter home from the hospital I have been in charge of the bedtime routine. It gives my wife a much needed break and it allows me some alone time with the baby. Bathing her was a battle in the beginning, but she's...
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    Explaining private parts

    My toddler is has discovered her private parts and I can't figure out how to get her to stop publicly exploring. I don't know if it's because she's a girl or what, but it makes me very uncomfortable. She isn't quite talking yet so having a little sit down with her is out of the question. Do I...
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