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    Unexpected and in shock

    Some great advice from these guys Tom. I just found out a few weeks ago that at 43 years old I'm gonna be a dad again.....AFTER having a vasectomy! You can imagine the shock I dealt with. Here I thought my kids were almost raised and it was "my time" finally, only to learn "here we go again". I...
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    Dad's to be over age 40?

    Thanks Bobby! Exact same situation here. My wife of 8 months is 9 years younger than I am, but this was not exactly expected, as I had a vasectomy 4 years ago, and found out AFTER the fact that the ends have "reattached". Talk about some trust issues coming up in a marriage initially! I guess it...
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    "Back talk"

    Yes! I work in the mental health field, and sadly many parents have stopped correcting, raising, and focusing on their children, choosing instead to focus on themselves and let society "teach" their children. People have forgotten that parenting is a "job" and requires work, time, and effort...
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    Hostess bankrupt

    I read that even though they are filing for bankruptcy protection, that the company will stay in business. I can't imagine them being broke however, based on all the cash I've thrown their way over the years! ;)
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    Special gift for the wife

    On thing that I've found is very popular right now are the Willow Tree figurines. They make them for all different occasions...we received one as a wedding gift that is very special to us, and I'm thinking about getting one for my wife after the baby arrives.
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    Starting over at middle-age!!

    Wow!!! I really need to hear stories like that....thank you!! :)
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    Dad's to be over age 40?

    Anyone besides me fit that bill, or am I the "lucky one"? :D
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    More than 5 kids?

    I have 3 from may first marriage, my wife has 2 from her first marriage. they range in age from 11 to 21, and we just learned that we're expecting in August. I'm trading the SUV in on a bus and painting it up like the Partridge Family's. ;)
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    The babys room

    As our baby on the way was a total surprise and all the other bedrooms are taken by the other kids, I'm losing my man-cave for the time being. It's paneling, and I'm trying to decide what to do with it. Our other kids are older and will be leaving the nest soon, so the new arrival can have one...
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    Obstetrician visits

    I go them all if work schedule allows, which it usually does as I'm right across from the medical offices. I feel it's my kid too so I wanna be there for whatever may come about. Also keeps me in mama's good graces. ;)
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    Starting over at middle-age!!

    Thanks to both of you! I'd like to look at this as maybe God felt that I raised my kids right and is now giving me the chance to do it again? I had to undergo open heart surgery to replace a torn heart valve in 2009, and my left lung was perm paralyzed in the process....just a freak thing...but...
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    Maintaining patience during times of stress

    When I was growing up, my parents yelled at me a LOT for what seemed to be no reason, to the point that I felt like nothing I did was good enough, and in later years it harmed our relationship as I grew older as a teen. When my own kids were younger, I used the "take a breath" suggestion, and...
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    Starting over at middle-age!!

    I just turned 43 last month. My oldest daughter just turned 21, my son is 17, and my baby girl is 16 today. I am now newly remarried to a wonderful 34 year old woman, and now have a 15 year old stepson and an 11 year old daughter. My wife and I learned last week that we are expecting in August...
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